So I LOVE my husband. He is probably one of the sweetest most sincere men I know. So when I tell you what he just said to me you will think one of three things. #1 He is sooo sweet and accepting, #2 He's not really good at the women language or #3 What the fuck was that moron thinking! And you are probably right.
I inform him that I have gained 5 lbs despite my work out efforts. Instead of saying no worries, you'll get back on track this is what I hear.
"Honey, I think you look great, and realisticly I dont see you LOSING any more, you'll probably just flucuate losing and gaining this 5 lbs for the rest of your life, so why not just LOVE yourself the way I love you, just the way you are"
While he worded it quite eloquently, I am female and there was NO good way to say that to me!
But the fact that he thinks I CANT do something, makes me feel the need to do it THAT MUCH MORE. Now I just have to figure out HOW.
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